When we first begin our riding journey, everything seems to be black and white. Pull left to turn left, pull right to turn right, pull both to stop and kick to go. As we master these big brushstrokes, we begin to layer in some additional supportive movements––pull left and look left, pull right and look right, pull both and lean back. As we begin to couple in these additions, we start to learn about refinement and making our cues smaller. Then we begin to ride with our body and focus before our reins and legs and so on. Once we reach the level at which we feel we are pretty good horse riders and trainers, we can sometimes hit a big plateau. I see many riders struggle when they reach this point. It can often turn into a 'search for a coach' situation as they roll from one instructor to the next, looking for that single secret that will get them off the plateau, and back to the climb. What it takes time to understand is that when we reach this point, where we can do most of what we want to do, our horse is a pretty nice partner, and we are just 'getting stuck' on some more advanced manoeuvres. it's not actually about finding the 'next best instructor', its about learning the nuance. I am not saying that you may not need a new instructor, but often we don't. What we do need is, to review everything we know with the new eyes we now have. Nuance is the feel in which we present information and cues to the horse, nuance in the timing of when and how we reward our horse, nuance in understanding the way they are carrying themselves. When we feel that it is time to "find the nuance" in our riding, that is when we get to review all of our tools, skills, knowledge and not just say "I know this" but ask ourselves "what can I learn about the nuance of this?" Linda Sawrey and I recently presented a mini workshop where I did a demonstration with a horse on the Window of Tolerance, and the skills I was demonstrating are nothing new, but the power in watching a demonstration like that, when you have watched so many demonstrations before, is to find the nuance in what you are seeing, not to sit there and think "oh yes this is what I do". Where will you find nuance this week? T x
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Staying in our comfort zone makes a lot of sense - after all it has ‘comfort’ right there in the name!
We all know that our day to day lives can present enough challenges, so why would I want to push myself out of my comfort zone, especially in a pursuit I have chosen to give me pleasurable leisure time - like my horse riding. The thing is, when we really have a good look at it, sometimes our ‘comfort zone’ isn’t really all that comfortable. For example if I lack the confidence to take my horse out on trails, or out to a competition or clinic, then my ‘comfort zone’ remains at home - sure at the time it feels pretty comfortable, but when I bought my horse I probably had visions of going out and about to enjoy him, and the social time that being around like minded people brings. Maybe I am fine going out and about, and my comfort zone relates more to my training. We see often time and time again students struggling for months, if not years with the same exercise - and when asked at a clinic if they had practiced at home, inevitably the answer is no. Be it because they ‘didn’t want to muck it up’ or simply because consciously or subconsciously we avoid the things we aren’t good at - after all when we ride and only focus on what we and the horse are good at - its a pretty good ride! The trouble with that is, that without working on the stuff we aren’t good at, it never gets better, and at some point our progress comes to a stop. Progress is the mother of motivation, and so when we feel we are no longer progressing, our level of enjoyment drops, and our ‘comfort zone’ again becomes less comfortable. Take a few minutes to list your top 3 and bottom 3 - the 3 things you are great at with your horse, and the 3 that need the most work. This will help to shape your lesson plan over the coming months. Happy trails, Tk xo Why choose me?
I've been a coach and educator for most of my life. I started teaching kids when I was just a teenager, having a Saddle Club on Saturday mornings and Wednesday evenings. As a young adult I worked with a few students, within the English-style dressage and hacking discipline. I worked 'part time' with horses for much of my 20's and then into my 30's, I went full time. I have been a a full time clinician and practitioner for 14 years this year, from Colt starting professionally, running private lessons and for the past 10 years or so, traveling extensively to present clinics on a range of subjects. I am a committed ongoing learner, and each year I invest heavily in self development. In 2024 alone, I participated in my 4th Masterson Method course, a Certificate IV in horse care, became certified as a Trauma informed trainer through Understand Horses, and was awarded Level 3 with distinction (the highest level) Cowboy Dressage Judge. I am committed to my own self development in order to offer the most in depth instruction and training I can to my students and their horses and I am an active competitor, clinician and judge in Cowboy Dressage. Who do I want to work with? I'm excited to work with students of the horse. Those that are not only committed to their own self development as a rider, but those interested to continue learning about and studying the horse, physically, mentally and emotionally. Those that understand that everything is connected, and that who we are as people, has a direct impact and is reflected in the horse. My philosophy is forged in kindness, compassion and connection, and I want to work with those who have a desire to understand, and connect with their horses. I enjoy working with competitors of all disciplines who are interested in training with kindness, and correct posture, or those simply wanting a confident and happy horse to work with. Train with me TK x It took me quite a few days to collect my thoughts before writing about our 5 day Confidence and Connection retreat. Firstly, I have so much gratitude for being able to collaborate with Linda from Nurtured by Nature Psychotherapy. I’ve known Linda through her attendance regularly at my clinics, and had an inkling that our material would work well together. I had an idea that her approach to humans, was in alignment with my approach to horses but this was so much more than that. Our presentations and lessons entwined and complimented each others so perfectly you would imagine that we wrote them together (we didn’t). Linda’s professionalism, her genuine caring, her vulnerability and her life experience truly did nurture the attendees towards growth and progress over the 5 days. Linda helped connect them to themselves, which then facilitated a deeper level of understanding and mutual connection with their horses. Linda worked with individuals privately and in a group setting over the 5 days, including their horses in sessions This clinic was held at a magical private property in the Gold Coast hinterland, complete with rolling hills, private waterfalls and crystal clear creeks, abundant birds and wildlife, surrounded by Springbrook and Lamington National Parks. This property held horses and humans over the five day immersion into our horses and ourselves. Huge thanks to L & D for allowing us to share Advaita. Our clinic Attendees really showed up for this one with open hearts and a great willingness to be vulnerable, reflective and honest with themselves and their horses, which resulted in some deep and positive outcomes. Our horses responded to this work with honesty, willingness and open communication, as always we learn so much from them. Beth shared her passion for art and how it can be a powerful tool for us to process thoughts and emotions, guiding us through a freeing art experience. Thank you for sharing your gift with us And finally for myself this clinic was a return to my passions, being a guide for open conversations with our horses, and most importantly being able to translate these conversations with honesty and transparency, without fear of egos becoming bruised and defensive, just raw and honest communication shared with love and respect, being a voice for our horses and sharing how we can build mutual trust and respect, and working with people who have a genuine desire for personal growth. Thank you to all of the participants for their openness Linda and I will be presenting this course and the follow up courses in 2026. To register your interest please send your email address to tour facebook page or through our website And with a trail ride the new year has arrived!
Welcome to 2026! 2025 was a huge year for TKH and I have you all to thank for that –– every “like”, every “share”, every time you attend a clinic or book me to judge, teach a class, watch a video or join my coaching group, you help to grow TKH and more importantly, help to share my approach and philosophy of kindness to the horse. The year of the horse has arrived and I am looking forward to spending another year traveling far and wide to share with you and your horses. Special mention to Phil who has my back always and is my biggest cheerleader With love and gratitude in my heart I welcome 2026 with open arms and an open heart. See you all on the trail T x Boogie stepped up again over the branding weekend and I am so thrilled with her. After a bad experience with some cattle rushing at her she has been pretty timid about cows. When Phil was invited to a branding, I took the opportunity to take her along to help her build confidence, which we did when mustering the cattle in for the branding, she took this so well that we took her to the next step of holding the cow. This was setup perfectly for her with the help of top hands James Flinn and Brittany Flinn.
Britt did the heavy lifting by roping the cow first and allowing boogie to stand beside her experienced horse a few times in amongst the work, then she roped one and handed off the rope to me, while both her and James gave me clear and calm instructions, making both of our “first times” a good experience. Boogie was well prepared for this, we have done a lot of roping and dragging logs, dummy’s and leading other horses so this was the perfect time to step it on up. A huge thanks to all the crew being patient with a newbie, and to Mary and Rueben for hosting. I am looking forward to stepping up again next time to being a helpful member of the group. xT Versatility
Foundation then versatility is what Phil Monaghan, Jaquima a Freno, Classical Horsemanship. And I are always developing in our horses. I would prefer to have a versatile horse vs a specialised one. Meaning I would rather have a horse that can give everything a good go vs a horse that is highly specialised in one discipline. Our horses are happy to head to a Cowboy Dressage competition one weekend then a beach ride the next, then a muster and roping, then a trail ride, then a ranch competition followed by an endurance ride. I can start a colt with Boogies help and do a demo in front of a crowd the next We want horses that are confident and fun to ride, live a long time, will put their hoof to anything and remain sound into old age. That’s what we train for. T xx I thought this New Year I might take the opportunity to share with you why you might like to train with me, or at the least join my online coaching group.
I’ve owned and trained horses since I was a teenager (although as a teen I didn’t realise I was training my OTT standardbred ) I’m a lifelong student of the horse, I personally still attend lessons and clinics, and invest in my ongoing education. I’ve trained across multiple disciplines, and competed in English dressage, western events, ranch and cowboy dressage. I was a qualified Working Equitation style and speed judge (I didn’t renew), and I am a level 3 with distinction Cowboy Dressage judge I start Colts under saddle and train my own competition horses - meaning I understand the “foundation to finish” process and have the broad range of skills required I still ride pretty much daily and I have 4 of my own horses in training - one that is not started under saddle yet, one that is green started, one that is coming back to work, one that is a performance horse, and I share with you these ongoing training sessions. This means my knowledge and riding and handling skills are kept up to date and evolve constantly, I travel and teach clinics full time and have for over a decade, meaning i work with hundreds of different horses and humans per year of various disciplines, breeds and level of training. I’d love to work with you, T x Living on the East Coast of Australia can be a wild ride when it comes to weather. It’s probably the most talked-about challenge that horse owners face here. From itchy horses to mud fever to abscesses, we often find ourselves doing more veterinary care than actual riding. This summer is shaping up to be no different. Some weather outlets are predicting extreme heat, while others are forecasting one of the wettest seasons yet. Either way, we horse owners need to be ready to pivot when it comes to our training days. Lately, I’ve been working on leaning into the challenges I face and finding ways to work with them, rather than doing nothing at all. My first example is with Saffi. I’m bringing her back into work now that my travel schedule has eased, so we’re revisiting all her foundation exercises. The other day it was a scorching 35 degrees, so I thought what better time to work on her acceptance of the hose, which will eventually lead to her being washed? I hadn’t spent any “hose time” with her since owning her. I know it sounds crazy, but our horses are really just left to be horses aside from the necessary care. So I took her to the hose, which she’s not overly fond of, and we spent some time working on that. The second example also involves Saffi. The next day we trimmed her feet, and she was a little sensitive. Once again, I had to pivot. I don’t mind asking a horse to work when they’re a little tender, but in this case, I felt that pushing through would have been counterproductive and may turn training into a negative experience. So, back to the hose we went. She only needed to stand still, and rather than doing nothing, I saw it as a good investment. After all, teaching her to accept the hose isn’t just about the hose. It’s about building confidence, learning to tolerate a “tickling” sensation, and accepting things that don’t always feel great. It’s all connected. The more confident your horse becomes in one area, the more it flows into everything else. I’ve written many articles and filmed videos about what we can do when we have to pivot. This season, let’s be prepared to keep working and training our horses even when the weather isn’t on our side. Yours in soft feel, T x There is a power in 'failure'. Find the power that comes with admitting you ‘can’t do something. This leaves you to focus on other things that you can improve and do better.
We are not all meant to be able to do all things, so give yourself permission to let things go in order to focus on the things you can do and improve. Cantering is a big one that fits in this category. There is so much pressure on people to canter, and sometimes due to age or injury its not something they can do well, and it can even put them at risk. So what? There are many disciplines where cantering is not a requirement, so focus on all the maneuvers that you can do without cantering, and become great at those! Photo by @Lahwulf Photography |
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